I'm a 43 yr-old male, divorced father of 1. Ive always been an athletic person and involved on sports teams (football & lacrosse) thru college and afterwards, so I've always tried to take care of my body. I enjoy working out at the gym and getting a good sweat on. I've only been in hetero relationships my whole life and I keep having these thoughts on imagining being with another man or with a man and a woman at the same time. I think I've finally built up the courage to go and put myself out there.