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_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Bandwagon   8/24/2007

Do you automatically jump on the bandwagon on this site when someone presents an article to put down certain people in order to drive them out of the advice line, articles or blogs?


18 Comments, 246 Views, 51 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_buymelovepls 39 F
9  Articles
How do I say NO means NO???!!!!!   8/21/2007

* * * I sent him Title: Thank you but I am not interested.

Content: Thank you but I am not interested.

* * * He sent me

Title: Re: Thank you but I am not interested.

Content: So sad u're saying that. At least just give me a chance to please u. Maybe we could have a drinks first.

* * *

(no reply)

* * *He sent me:

Title: u ...


11 Comments, 189 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
rm_buymelovepls 39 F
9  Articles
Nothing turns a girl off more than Desperados!!!   8/16/2007

I think if we gather all the nasty comments all the girls have gotten, we can publish a thicker-than-encyclopedia book!!! And somehow guys don't realise, sending nasty comments only show how desperate you are, and that is a huge TURN OFF!!!

I am attaching 2 here: * * * JUST A NOTE OF SINCERE THANKS AND APPRECIATION FOR YR TIME N EFFORT TO REPLY

TO ME YOU ARE JUST A BRA ...



7 Comments, 139 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
More on Thank You, I am not interested   8/11/2007

When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments. Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality, sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and more?

Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back for a moment and think that this person has ...


11 Comments, 191 Views, 18 Votes ,4.08 Score
What is Better   7/31/2007

I often am to blunt in saying no thanks. I am not trying to be rude, I just come across that way by saying no when I wish to say no. What is a good way to say no and not be a jerk.


6 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_sergio9869 57 M
10  Articles
ahahah it's ok.   7/30/2007

after a long exchange of messages i thaught that it was done.SHE was waiting me...i arrived a bit late.So she said..U are late ..."no thanks".


5 Comments, 92 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
cplseeksgreatsex 30 C
10  Articles
No Thanks??   7/26/2007

I have noticed there are a lot of ppl that write and aren't actally what we are looking for. We always try to be nice and respond to everyone in some way or another even if it is to say 'No Thanks'. But there have been a lot of ppl that get really pissed about saying 'No Thanks'We are really nice ppl and try not to hurt ppls feelings at all but when ppl get pissed all it does is turn us further ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_liodlioness 61 F
5  Articles
Just say NO   7/23/2007

But wow, is it hard to do some times, ....tho to be truthful it is easier on line than face to face.


2 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_nutjob13 28 M
1  Article
ever felt bad abut saying no?   6/28/2007

my girlfriend was a virgin and really wanted to lose her virginity to me, but the night she wanted to i had so much stuff on my mind so i said i wasnt ready, she looked quite upset, anything like this happened to anyone else?


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Ohvlycpl 45 C
10  Articles
Why do some people feel the need to lie??   6/19/2007

If you're not into it, please just say so...if you're not interested, just say so. If you were, then you changed your mind, or got a better offer, JUST FREAKING SAY SO!!! Don't lie through your teeth and say your neighbor died and you'll be in touch soon, when you're more in the mood, when its quite obvious from the recent (dated) testimonials on your profile that you were having fun with others ...


5 Comments, 112 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
if its what needs to be said   6/15/2007

then say it


0 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes
chloebear2 54 F
1  Article
No is a complete sentence...   6/2/2007

It is not always intended to be a hurtful sentence. Oftentimes its just a "You are not my type, good luck to you".

We have all been there and as long as you are kind with your "no" that should be enough.

This site is massive develop a "NEXT" attitude and move on.

I mean really do you really want to waste your time with someone who is not into ...



5 Comments, 74 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
Your loss emails   5/30/2007

it really annoys me when i am polite enough to say no thanks and some jerk replies back with your loss and i didn't want you anyway. i mean this being an adult site you would think people would tend to be more mature. if i am polite enough to tell you no thank you what's the point in emailing me back in the first place? or if you know you aren't what i'm looking for why keep emailing me asking ...


2 Comments, 90 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
Unstable individuals   5/30/2007

i received this email and tons of harrassing pms from a guy i told not interested to. it was a response to my email asking him to stop bothering me. this email doesn't make any sense to me because he fails to see that i am not interested still. he has another name on here also that he is harrassing me with.

Finally a civil and kind response, however I would have to disagree with your ...


2 Comments, 105 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
No fucking to untidy women   5/29/2007

I went along the beach on a sunny evening. The time was 7pm. The people who came to the beach are little by little leaving the shore. I live alone. Even I go to my boarding I have to loiter. So I chose to wait some more time. I was sitting on a stone and watchin the sea. After a few minutes, one woman weighing(200kg)with un ugly face and ragged clothes came closer to me and begged me to have a ...


4 Comments, 201 Views, 13 Votes
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
joke   5/23/2007

if i big fat girl wants to have sex with you and you dont want to but too scared or shy and you know if you dont say or do anything she will prolly get you in the bed well say fuckin no thanks and if shes gets mad slap that bitch and run


7 Comments, 158 Views, 23 Votes
clickhere4fun67 57 M
1  Article
No Is Better Than Who Knows?   5/22/2007

I send out quite a few emails and get a few responses, most positive and a few negative. I have no problem with rejection, its a part of life and a part of the game on here. All I want to say is be polite and don't leave someone hanging. I mean some of us are a little slow on the uptake and we take no response as well a maybe or maybe later. It doesn't take long to type No Thanks or even just ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
MatureExplorer 71 M
5  Articles
Why is age or distance a barrier to chat/email?   5/11/2007

This may not be the right forum for this, but my biggest bitch about being told "No Thanks" is when a lady has it in her profile "Looking for erotic chat or email" and that's it, no mention of meeting or 1 on 1. OK, seems pretty clear. So I write her and get told that I'm either too old or too far away.

Seems to me that chat and email are just about as pure a meeting of the minds as ...


5 Comments, 177 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
cumrideit69 40 M
10  Articles
asian girls   4/26/2007

where are all the hot horny asian girls in Brisbane?


0 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes
shelbyfireman 51 M
7  Articles
Third wheel   4/16/2007

I have a friend that seems to want to tag along right around closing time. This guy is not real smooth or lucky with the ladies. How does a person restrain him from interfereing with any chances I have. He is a good friend and I do not want to upset him by telling him how he is bringing me down.


1 Comments, 79 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
how?   4/11/2007

OK, how does a guy tell a woman no thanks gentily?


14 Comments, 198 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_Sweetsub321 49 C
1  Article
Have you ever noticed...   4/10/2007

Have you ever noticed that being part of this lifestyle also means that we are I guess like elementary school teachers?
Allow me to elaborate, Our profile reads fairly plainly, we arent into single guys, and if we want one, we will write..
Does this stop the piss poor readers from writing.. Hell No!
On other sites, its fairly clear by posted ratios, if you reply to letters ...


10 Comments, 240 Views, 16 Votes ,5.04 Score
Flirtatious_c89 36 C
10  Articles
How exactly do you say it....?   4/9/2007

When faced with a situation of no-interest, how does one say no without seeming rude or stuck-up? A simple "no thanks" often leaves others feeling unwanted and unattractive. Although it seems to be the most often used method. I'm just curious, how would you feel if someone said "no thanks" and nothing further? I would assume most people would move on, but I'm sure there are other reactions.


4 Comments, 104 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_1dom1dom 48 M
4  Articles
Why cant you get an answer!   4/5/2007

When sending messages why cant you get an answer even if it is a NO Thanks??
It doesnt take much even if its a automated response to say they only get back to people they are interested in.


14 Comments, 346 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
Nice thing to do   4/3/2007

They teched us about drugs and every "bad" stuff... the same should apply to our free will of saying No Thanks to those tuff situations that your heart says No thanks but you mind says Yes.. always follow the heart..


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
why don't guys listen   3/28/2007

we ladies say no why can't guys listen


2 Comments, 173 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
how to say no   3/3/2007

sometimes i wonder wot part ono dont you fucking get? , i meen no thanks , no, blody no just plain no, if i want ill ask untill then NNNOOOO !...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes
rm_gjsteeldick 28 M
2  Articles
it's not easy   2/12/2007

It is not vary easy to say no to sex when every talks about it all the time.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
????   1/29/2007

The only reason I can think of to say "No Thanks" is if you knew for sure that he/she was HIV+. And then, I might still if we had protection. I love sex.


5 Comments, 108 Views, 8 Votes
RVAfuckbuddy 43 M
3  Articles
damn the man   1/28/2007

sometimes i have trouble saying no....


0 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score